We always live for little things in life. It can be a 5 AM sunrise, 6 PM sunset or a starry night, where you will see colours in the sky that don’t usually belong. You live for road trips, long drives and bike rides with music in your ears and a wind caressing your hair. You live for a simple good morning and a good night text from your favourite people. You live for that one day to spend with your best friend, who is far away from you. You crave for that goodnight kiss from your mother, when she is not beside you. You live for that protecting arm from your father and brother. You live for that hug, that can make you feel better. You live for days, when you are surrounded by your loved ones, who make you realize that the world is not a cold, harsh place. You live for little things but you still search for things what is actually not required.
I have once read, that people need just three things to be truly happy in this world, someone to love, something to do and something to hope for.
But, how can we get these three things?
May be by enjoying and cherishing the little things in life because, someday when you will look back, you will realize they were big things.
We just need to cherish those little things. I have found that, I still feel high and very low in life, daily. But, I have finally accepted the fact that, sensitive is just how I was made and neither I have to hide this nor I have to fix unless and until I have people who are there at the end of the day to comfort me. See, just a little thing, but it really matters.
Personally, I never forget the way a person makes me feel. Memories can fade away and the words that were said, may get jumbled, but good feeling always override the bad ones unless you have people to give those good feelings.
I have noticed that, when all the lights are on, in a daylight, people tend to talk about what they are doing, their outer lives more precisely, pretending to be the one they are not, they look the happiest. But, sitting round in candlelight, firelight, moonlight while staring stars, they talk about their feelings- their inner lives. They speak subjectively, they argue less, there are larger pauses. Just a little thing, but no one notices.
You can write for hours and hours for all the things you wish you could be, you feel. But, there are times, you can’t even hold a pen, to write something, just because you don’t even feel and then there comes a person who reminds you of the statement that you once said to them, that writing comes naturally, you can’t force your feelings. Just a little thing, but it matters, because it made you feel better.
If you love something, love it completely, cherish it, say it but most importantly, show it. Life is finite and fragile, just something is there one day, it might not be the next day. Live for little things in life.