What’s your problem? 👤

Do you know, what’s your problem is? You get attached fast and once you are attached to someone, you do everything you can do to please them and make them happy. It’s never been about what you want, it’s always everyone needs before your own. You give out too many chances to people, who quite frankly, do not deserve. They take advantage of you and you become a pushover. But you are okay with that, because they’re in your life and that’s all you ever wanted. And if they screw you over, you will still be there for them. Because that’s YOU, that’s who you are. A beautiful, magnanimous, selfless soul.

But, your soul do not deserve that. You carry so much love in your heart, give some love to an altruistic YOU.

So, it’s the time, you let them go. I know it’s hard because some part of you still loves them. But the day dreaming, the running in places for people who don’t value you, is not healthy. So, this is YOU, cutting the cord. This is YOU, doing what you should have done months ago: ‘saying goodbye’ to them.

Love yourself more than yesterday ♥️ You are precious ⭐ Take care of yourself 🌼

Published by Anushk@

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54 thoughts on “What’s your problem? 👤

  1. Great post Anushka. I think lots of us have done that, make it all about someone else’s needs, likes and wishes, pushing aside our own. It’s great to be grown up now lol and not feel the need to put everyone else first. Caz x

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      1. Thank you so much😊
        It means a lot to me. I’ll do answer all the questions. Thank you for the nomination.
        I want to ask you a question 🙂
        Are you a mental health professional?

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      1. There’s a friend of mine, Monika Jain, she was the exact person who needed to read this. And guess what, after reading this, she was on cloud nine. In fact, she shared it in her story too. (Of course, with the proper credit) 🙂

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      2. Oh, thank you so much #sumit. I am feeling so good, that my writing had helped somebody. It means alot to me. Thank you so much for sharing this story.
        Give your friend a lot of courage, love and positivity from my side 😊

        Thank you for reading.

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  2. Love might be the toughest competition to all the other feelings that we have.
    But letting the love overtake your head and heart even though it’s giving you pain but you aren’t realising it since the competition between these two feelings, isn’t something very pleasant.(2/3)

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    1. That’s the actual truth. If you have done more than enough for them and they still don’t appreciate the shit out of you. You need to walk away. You can’t settle for less.

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      1. Not everyone is perfect enough to know when and how much of appreciation the partner needs…but if this fact isn’t even there in their head gives us the idea to let go of them.

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  3. I don’t know if I’ve ever spoke to you. But after this I love you.
    I needed to hear this in urgent.

    Good work🙂
    And the quote was lit 🔥.
    I am saving your post so that I don’t stumble over again.

    Much love to you💛💛

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  4. Obviously loving someone selflessly is one’s beauty , but loosing own individuality isn’t something going let that beauty stay for long…and especially when you are continuously being taken for granted.(1/3)

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