Being self-partnered 👥

Self-love, self-respect, self-worth,there is a reason they all start with self because you can’t find them in anyone else.

It’s ok to want your own happiness. It’s ok to care about yourself the most. It’s ok to do what’s healthy for you. The most important day is the day when you decide you are good enough for u. It’s the day u set yourself free. You r both good and bad, messy and complex and still worthy of compassion, love n acceptance. Your worth is not contingent upon other people’s statements, acceptance of u…it’s something inherent.

You exist, therefore u matter…You r allowed to asserts your needs n take up the space. You’re allowed to voice your feelings n thoughts and you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes u feel otherwise.

Self-care is not about being selfish, thinking for nobody in life or having no one….but it’s something we call self-partnership. Where you’re the one taking care of yourself, nurturing, protecting, motivating n loving yourself. You carry so much love in your heart…just give some to yourself. Whatever u do, never run back to what broke u. So don’t be afraid of solitude that comes with raising your standards. Self worth isn’t something to strive for. It’s already there, like buried treasure, hidden beneath the layers of doubt. Strive only to love yourself then only u’ll realize how right u r.

Just embrace your self-worth and like the moon…we must go through the phases of empitiness to feel whole again. So, be rooted in your being that nobody’s absence or presence can disturb your inner peace.

Will it be easy? Nope…

Will it worth it? Absolutely…

So, just Breathe and do take care of yourself.

Published by Anushk@

Learning new everyday..!!

17 thoughts on “Being self-partnered 👥

  1. Very much true Anushka.. ❤
    Self care is NOT selfishness. Infact, there may be some who think otherwise, and I don't know why. They may refer to two sayings from India and abroad in general to understand the gist of it:
    1. "Bhooke pet bhajan na hot"
    2. God helps those who help themselves

    So, more than the comforting tone, I believe that it is a dire necessity to take care of oneself first before starting to take care of others. And one's duty is not to please everybody around himself/herself at his/her own cost.

    Nice thoughts Anushka.. Take Care..!! 😊😊
    (bdw, a bit sad to see your absence from my blog)

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    1. Thank you for always being that constant Abir. For reading my posts and giving feedback. You have been a constant motivation to me and you still are.
      Thank you so much😊

      And I am really sorry for commenting late on your blog.

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      1. Dear Anushka, please don’t apologize.. ❤ 😊🤗
        You might be busy with some work, so that's OK.. 😊
        And as I said before, I like reading your posts and having discussions on the same with you.. They are quite thoughtful and I like hearing from you as well.. ❤ ❤

        Keep smiling and be happy..!! 😊🤗

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      2. Thank you so much Abir. By saying this, you have unburdened me.
        I was really in guilt, of not commenting back on your post, though I have read it.

        And thank you so much for your feedbacks always 💙✨

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  2. The right kind of motivation …as relatable to everyone as anything else
    Well thought and so beautifully written.
    Keep growing
    Keep inspiring…!!

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